Threading the Needle: The Window of Attunement and Somatic Attachment
Tara Lozano Tara Lozano

Threading the Needle: The Window of Attunement and Somatic Attachment

In somatic psychotherapy, healing isn’t just about insight​. It’s about experience. It’s about what happens in the nervous system, in the subtle shifts of breath, posture, muscle tone, and relational contact. When we talk about threading the needle, we’re speaking to the delicate, moment-to-moment process of staying within a client’s window of attunement​--that sweet spot where growth becomes possible.

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Healing Through Soothing Touch: Self-Touch and Therapeutic Touch in Somatic Psychotherapy
Tara Lozano Tara Lozano

Healing Through Soothing Touch: Self-Touch and Therapeutic Touch in Somatic Psychotherapy

In a world where many of us live “from the neck up,” somatic psychotherapy invites us back into the wisdom of the body. At the heart of this work is a simple but powerful truth: the body holds experience, and through the body, healing can occur. One of the most profound tools in this process is soothing, intentional touch—both self-touch and, when appropriate, therapist-guided touch in session.

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Deepening Healing Through Inner Relationship Focusing (IRF) in Somatic Psychotherapy
Tara Lozano Tara Lozano

Deepening Healing Through Inner Relationship Focusing (IRF) in Somatic Psychotherapy

In the world of somatic psychotherapy, we understand that the body holds experience. Emotions, memories, and relational patterns are not just thoughts in the mind; they are lived and stored in the nervous system. One powerful approach that helps clients gently access and transform these embodied experiences is Inner Relationship Focusing (IRF).

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Cooperation and Competition: What the Research Shows About Working With Rather Than Working Against in Somatic Therapy

Cooperation and Competition: What the Research Shows About Working With Rather Than Working Against in Somatic Therapy

In a world that often rewards striving, pushing, and outperforming, many of us internalize the belief that growth comes from working against ourselves—fighting symptoms, suppressing emotions, overriding limits. But in somatic psychotherapy, healing unfolds through a very different principle: working with the body rather than against it.

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The Felt Sense

The Felt Sense

In somatic psychotherapy, the phrase “felt sense” refers to something subtle yet profoundly important: the body’s lived, internal experience of a situation. It is not just an emotion, a thought, or a physical sensation. It is the whole, embodied sense of “what this is like for me.”

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Meet Charge With Charge: A Somatic Approach to Trauma Healing
Tara Lozano Tara Lozano

Meet Charge With Charge: A Somatic Approach to Trauma Healing

In somatic psychotherapy, you may hear the expression “meet charge with charge.” While it can sound like advice, it’s more of a guiding principle—a way of understanding how the body moves toward healing when trauma has impacted the nervous system.

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